The debate over natural vs. drugged labors rages daily. Professionals argue
both sides, while parents wait to hear what the healthiest choice should be.
Research emerges frequently that supports one side or the other. Issues of
women's right to choose an anesthetized birth over the struggle for a natural
birth pervade the birth industry, in spite of evidence that shows the harmful
side effects of drugs during labor. Proven or not, birth professionals have to
be very careful what they encourage (or fail to discourage) in pregnant and
laboring women. When birthing moms consider the pros and cons of drugs in labor
it is important to remember that in addition to the physical aspects there are
emotional ones as well. Parents, as well as birth professionals, need to take
this into consideration. We need to stop and think that while there may be many
reasons for desiring drugs (fear, ignorance, and history of abuse) other than
true medical need, it is still our responsibility to educate ourselves about
the reality and risks of our choices.
The emotional side to drugs in labor includes the effects that we, who have
been there, live with every day. Both my teaching colleague and I have children
who have learning disabilities and other problems that we believe are the result
of horrible drugged births. My three brothers who had drugged births are all
drug/alcohol addicts1 (two of whom are now clean and sober). The
only one who experienced twilight sleep is the only one who is not
recovering--and he has no intention of stopping now. I have watched my family
and theirs suffer through those experiences, and many of them still are. Ask
yourselves, is it worth the risk?
Living in a society that believes drugs and technology solve all medical
problems, birthing women need to know that no drug is considered safe during
pregnancy and labor. They all have potential negative side effects, and
partially unknown long-term effects. I say partially because research done in
Europe promoted by Dr. Michele Odent, connects future drug addiction2,
suicide3
and autism4
to drug exposure during labor. Other suspected effects are learning
disabilities, dyslexia and ADD,
but the connection has yet to be conclusively proven. However, when I asked the
social workers and school psychologists why they were attending my classes,
they would say it was because they see far too many learning disabilities and
too much ADD. Not something they wanted to risk for their own children.
People come to the birthing professions from many different backgrounds, and
for many different reasons. Mine is not an uncommon story, and it details the
more emotional aspects of birth and drugs.
That's how I got here. My oldest son's birth and the experiences of my
siblings with drug abuse and alcoholism. It's hard to separate the emotion from
the research for me. The scientific side of my brain (the half that was trained
to do legal research in medical malpractice) needs to collect information,
proof, and research. I present it to my students and keep things as factual as
possible in class, but what about those "emotional" side effects?
In 1989 for the birth of my first child I took Lamaze, used my regular
gynecologist, and birthed at the hospital my Lamaze teacher worked at as a
Labor nurse. I felt safe and cared for. My goal was a natural birth, and she
was wonderful, but when I asked how to avoid a c-section, she said there was no way. Either you need
one or you don't. I did not want to use any drugs, but during my short
efficient labor they were repeatedly pushed on me. Even after they put in an IV that I thought contained pain
medications (it didn't), and remarked how much better I felt (amazing what
hydration and walking can do) that didn't stop them from giving me medication I
obviously no longer needed. My husband didn't know any better. Once they gave
me the Demerol (Pethidine) I was confined to bed, flat on my back, and would
sleep in between the contractions, and wake up screaming during them. My
comment about Demerol was that "This stuff doesn't do !#$%&*!" A
vaginal exam was done every hour, making me scream louder. When I pushed him
out they screamed at me because I couldn't push. I had no urge and was
frightened. When my son was born he was blue, had respiratory depression, and several
other health problems. I saw him briefly before the whisked him away to the
Neonatal Intensive Care. I did not realize he was sick, and I couldn’t respond
to him because I was so drugged. We missed that beautiful bonding that can take
place between mother and child in those first few hours.
It was 12 hours before would I see him again. Once I woke up, I demanded to
see him repeatedly, to no avail. Because we both had fevers I was not allowed
to hold or nurse him until 3 O'clock in the morning. The nursery nurse (Helga
the nurse from %!#$!) threatened me that I had 15 minutes to nurse him or she
would take him. He was too weak to nurse, and of course she took him and I went
back to my room crying that I was a failure as a mother. There was no one there
to support or assist me. Luckily I was determined, and my son was a fighter.
Once I got him home after a week in the hospital, he became a champion nurser.
The most pathetic aspect is that none of the interventions I received during
his birth were medically necessary.
Today he is 16 and very healthy, but it's been a long hard road. In 2nd
grade he was diagnosed with a learning disability in reading and ADHD. If they had had their way he
would be on Ritalin. Instead I insisted on an Individual Educational Plan,
monitor and assist with his homework, and act as his advocate on a regular
basis. We stress that concentration and sticking to a task is a life skill that
needs to be learned and practiced often, and that he is not alone in this
journey.
When I planned my next pregnancy I kept asking why he had the problems he
did. They couldn't tell me. All they would say was that the problems he had
were common with cesarean babies. But he wasn't born by cesarean! Many years of
research led me to conclude that the drugs5
combined with the speed with which they cut the cord (immediately) probably
caused his respiratory distress6. Repeated vaginal exams every hour
(totaling at least 9) probably caused our fevers and infections7.
The drugs also contributed to his difficulty breastfeeding8,
and severe jaundice9.
This time I did my homework, found a midwife, and took Bradley classes. My 2nd son's birth was wonderful, natural, drug free, and he was a very healthy baby.
He never left our sight, and we were able to go home in less than 24 hrs. It
was a very healing experience.
What did I give up the first time that I reclaimed with my 2nd
son? Health, control, bonding, respect, love--and the list goes on. I still
mourn what I lost with my eldest child, and regret my ignorance. Have I risked
part of his future because of it? Is it worth the risk?
I found a new profession from the experiences of my children's births. My
job now is to make sure no mother and baby in my classes has to go through what
my eldest son and I experienced. Recently in speaking with my mother about her
birth experiences she talked about how it felt to wake up after Twilight sleep
and not remember a thing about the birth. In order to reclaim what she missed
the first time she had saddle blocks with the next two children. It turns out
not even my birth was totally without drugs, as the Doctors insisted they would
have to do repair work after the birth, and she would need a saddle block. This
was administered minutes before I was born. I guess I am lucky I wasn't exposed
to it longer considering the long-term effects it may have had on my brothers.
Today our most important job is to protect our children. It is the beginning
of learning to parent. We need to educate ourselves regarding all choices we
make for our kids' health and well being so we can make educated, not ignorant,
decisions. Sometimes we say thank goodness for an intervention or medication
when it is truly medically necessary, but how can we know that unless we
educate ourselves? The good news, gang, is that once you learn to educate
yourself on these issues and how to be your child's advocate, it is a life time
skill that transfers well into parenting at all stages. I'm still at it, and
probably always will be.
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The Emotional Side to Drugs in Labor: The Beginning of Learning to Parent
Authored by: doulaluisa on
Saturday, March 18 2006 @ 01:05 PM CST
Hi! My name is Luisa and I am a portuguese doula. I have seen many mothers receiving drugs at hospital, specially due to all the procedures done there. It is very hard to cope with artificial occitocin, and therefor the need to use drugs.
here is a link to epidural: http://www.healing-arts.org/mehl-madrona/mmepidural.htm
and if any of you speak portuguese, you can read more at http://doulasdeportugal.blogspot.com
The Emotional Side to Drugs in Labor: The Beginning of Learning to Parent
Authored by: Wendy on
Saturday, March 18 2006 @ 03:07 PM CST
Thank you so much for posting this, Amy! Our children being born (or being in the womb, beginning their journey...) is the fresh start. When does our society believe it begins? Thanks for posting what you wrote, Amy!
here is a link to epidural:
http://www.healing-arts.org/mehl-madrona/mmepidural.htm
and if any of you speak portuguese, you can read more at
http://doulasdeportugal.blogspot.com
Luisa